Friday, December 26, 2008

Personal Reflection

William Purkey wrote:

“Dance like no one is watching” – I can’t dance, but I tried a few times alone in front of a mirror. The reflection told me not to even try.

“Love like you will never be hurt” – I have done that all my life I thought, but I have been hurt. I suppose my love is not perfect or is misunderstood. I seem to be always hungry for a little true love from those I love. I am not supposed to expect anything in return in a true unselfish love.

“Sing like no one is listening” – I do that from time to time, but I cannot pretend like no one is listening, because they ask me to stop.

“Live like it’s heaven on earth” – This has been my motto too. I try to start everyday as a new heavenly day, but cruelty of the day brings hell to me.

I am not sure I can live up to William Purkey’s advice. So, I fall back to my old belief (“I complained I had no shoes till I saw a person with no legs”) to solace myself that things could be worse. So, I continue to do my duty as a human being, as a father, as a husband, and so on. Life must go on until I am ready to return home.

Saturday, December 06, 2008

Seeking a permanent solution:

We will perhaps not annihilate the human race in large-scale wars like WWI or WWII. But we are capable of still achieving the same result by slow poisoning of small scale wars like terrorism, gun toting civilians, angry mob, unofficial exploitation and starvation, ruining the eco system slowly but surely. If we truly want to be civilized, if we truly want peace, to love and be loved; tit-for-tat will not work; retaliation will not work. It may be a stopgap measure, but not a permanent solution. You can bomb Iraq or Pakistan, but will it stop terrorism? These are all relative terms. During the British Raj, train derailment was a patriotic thing although radical in nature. But it did kill innocent people. Same game, only different term. What some Israeli leaders did prior to the creation of Israel was the same. These all happen because of a root cause. Derailing train could not have toppled the British Empire. It was Gandhian approach with love, peace and justice that sent back the Brits home.

What has happened – howsoever terrible it might be – is water under the bridge, spilled milk and nothing can be done about it. Those lives cannot be brought back. A reaction, retaliation may be politically justified, but not morally and not for a long-term solution. The children in many countries - who saw their parents blown off - will never forget the scene and may be cynical about the world and may take to terrorism themselves someday. So, we must not perpetuate the problem by retaliation.

Every living being wants to live. What the world lacks is a true visionary leader - one who will try to understand the root cause for these upheavals; why is one willing to blow himself/herself up, why did Irish Republican Army, Shiv Sena, Skin Head, ULFA, SULFA, NDFB, AAMSU, etc. happen, why are people willing to risk their lives to come to America, why do horrible things happen in Croatia, Yugoslavia, Sri Lanka, and so on, why did the Indians get kicked out of Uganda? Why does every country spend billions developing defense arsenals (whose only purpose is to kill) and not on eradicating hunger, poverty, illiteracy?

What we need is a great social doctor who would diagnose the disease first and then apply the right medication. Typhoid medication doesn’t work for malaria. What the world has today is a large number of cancerous cells (caused by perhaps societies own habits), hopefully in its early stage. It is serious. It is time to pause and do a root cause analysis instead of knee jerk reaction. Or is it just social entropy and will it be always on the rise?

Monday, December 01, 2008

News: Good and Bad

It is Thanksgiving time. It makes us ponder and to be thankful for what we have, thank those for their sacrifice so that we can enjoy what we have. It is time to thank those Native Americans who unselfishly gave food to the hungry alien folks who in turn wiped out the natives with an ungrateful and selfish (or is it Darwinian theory of survival of the fittest) way. Now in the 21st century are we becoming a little more altruistic? What do the people who are dead because of stupid wars, terrorist attacks or cancer or abject poverty (in the midst of affluence and greed) have to be thankful for? But even their kinfolks must not lose hope. Yes, it is easy to lecture for those of us who “have”.

Last 12 months have seen a lot. On the downside, there were terrorist attacks in Guwahati, Bombay and such tragedy will continue unless we find the root cause. There was fighting in old Russian Georgia. Protesters shut down Bangkok airport. Benajir Bhutto was assassinated last December. Houston was devastated by hurricane Ike. Global economy took a nosedive. On the upside, Obama was elected making history in our continued march towards equality. At personal level, I climbed mount Kilimanjaro, the highest peak in Africa. There were lovely weddings (including that of our daughter) bringing joy. Yes, we also had a few newborn in the community while death came to some in the form of cancer.

Life will continue - as it should - with good and bad while we take small steps towards the other side of the rainbow.